One of the Brave Ones: An Interview with Wylie

Betty's Bees

Betty’s Bees Set from Pushing Daisies

On my facebook homepage the last several weeks I noticed a few posts advertising a new pilot for a TV show to air this Friday night. It’s Mockingbird Lane – a re-imagining of the 1960’s blue-collar monster show, The Munsters.

I don’t watch much TV, so the only reason I looked twice at the posts was because of who was posting. He’s an old friend who usually makes terrifically sarcastic comments, someone I’d last seen in Ann Arbor years ago, and who I had heard was working in Hollywood now.

One of his comments beneath a Mockingbird Lane post said something like, “Hey, watch this show so I can feed my kids. I mean, my step-kids. Okay, there are no kids. Watch the show so I can buy watercraft.” A click or two taught me that my old friend, Michael Wylie, is an Emmy Award winning Production Designer. I’m embarrassed to admit this. I knew Emmy meant gorgeous dresses and famous people, but I had no idea what a Production Designer was.

A couple more clicks and I got the idea that Michael, who goes by Wylie, is doing some really interesting creative work. Since we used to hang out together in downtown Flint at the Copa nightclub, and in Ann Arbor as college kids back in the late 80’s, I figured, why not message Wylie to see if he’d be interested in doing an interview. Within minutes he replied, “Hey Shap. Sounds fun.”

That’s really all it took to get into Hollywood.

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“The Battles That Count Aren’t The Ones For Gold Medals”

If It's Not An Olympic Event It Should Be

If It’s Not An Olympic Event It Should Be

 

Olympic Wisdom

Summer is a time for many things – splashing on the water, cooking out with friends, sharing sunsets and dreams with someone special.

But this summer is also a time of athletic greatness.

Since the 2012 Summer Olympics is going on right now, we thought we’d simply share a few quotes from some past Olympic champions. We hope you’ll find their words relevant, wise, and inspiring.

From Wilma Rudolph:

“Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness lives within each of us.”

“No matter what accomplishments you make, somebody helps you.”

This last quote echoes, to some degree, an earlier post about explorer Tori Murden McClure’s transition from a desire to be independent to an acceptance of and appreciation for the strength that comes from recognizing our interdependence.

Here are a few words from Jesse Owens:

“The battles that count aren’t the ones for gold medals. The struggles within yourself – the invisible, inevitable battles inside all of us – that’s where it’s at.”

Post Race Antics

Post Race Antics

From Carl Lewis:

“Scientists have proven that it’s impossible to long-jump 30 feet, but I don’t listen to that kind of talk. Thoughts like that have a way of sinking into your feet.”

And from Nadia Comăneci:

“I don’t run away from a challenge because I am afraid. Instead, I run toward it because the only way to escape fear is to trample it beneath your feet.”

“You should also appreciate the goodness around you, and surround yourself with positive people.”


For some interesting information on “50 Stunning Olympic Moments,” click here.

You don’t need to set world records, but hopefully you can make your own Olympic moments over the next two weeks – special moments where you just slow down and make the most of your time with family, with friends, with yourself.

American Witch & Poet, Annie Finch: An Interview

Annie Finch Author Photo

Annie Finch

I first met Annie Finch in 2003 through her book of poetry, Calendars. I bought the book because one of the epigraphs was a line by the poet Louise Bogan who I was also reading and loving at the time. That summer I brought Calendars and Bogan’s The Blue Estuaries with me and my 4 young children to my sister’s island cottage in Canada.

To be honest, I found I couldn’t “understand” the work of either of these poets, but this is what returned me to them every afternoon when my toddler napped. I learned quickly that reading Finch or Bogan at night, with my flashlight, my 3 year old tucked into my side, didn’t work.

My sister had a young daughter at the time too. Once all of the kids were in bed, we didn’t want to make any noise that might wake any of them. Our days, weeks, and months, the first of more than a decade of summers there, were cherished but exhausting. And I believe something about the setting – the hundreds of forested acres, the isolation, bathing in the lake, two women and many kids, and the absence of technology, of a hair dryer, of a washing machine, a telephone, an oven, men – opened me to the wild feminine pulsing through the poems.

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Paint the World

Heidelberg The Face of Yesterday Today

Heidelberg - The Face of Yesterday, Today

“The main thing is to be moved, to love, to hope, to tremble, to live.”
~ (French sculptor Auguste Rodin)

It’s easy to get caught up in the way things used to be or, more specifically, the way things no longer are. Of course, all you need to do is drive around pretty much any community (from small one-stoplight towns to big cities) and you’ll find a lot of left behind.

Strip malls and super-centers, mom & pop stores and farms, homes and even entire neighborhoods that are nothing more than shells now, empty and abandoned and often decrepit remnants of what used to be.

These places represent, in more ways than one, the collective experience of a 21st Century life. Their flickery-florescent-lights-dangling-loose-from-the-ceiling aesthetic mirrors the way many people feel inside.

A Different Kind of Tree

A Different Kind of Tree

Unrecognizable. Ruined. Lost.

There seems to be a pervasive sense of crumbling and collapse in the psyche of many people these days. A feeling that everything once great and promising is gone. But not forgotten!

Anything but forgotten actually.

At the same time, there’s also this expansive movement of mindfulness and of people not merely seeking answers or direction, but the means by which to have some say again in their own lives.

“Creativity” is a buzz word and with good reason. Life, as we know it, requires a creative approach. It’s not just business as usual. It’s not just anything as usual.

But hope is still out there!

A hope that isn’t muddled or diluted by contentment for simply existing, for merely getting by. A hope that things can and will and should get better. That individuals and communities and businesses will find new ways to thrive.

With this blog, we intend to inspire, to inform, to educate, and to empower. That’s part of the The Best Me’s mission.

We want to introduce you to people who are finding ways to make a difference. In their communities, but also in their own lives. People who have incorporated their creative side in some way – whether they’ve built their own rowboat and paddled it 3,600 miles across the Atlantic or they’re seeking ways to help people and communities become healthier and more self-sustainable.

Why? We want you to see yourself in the people with whom we talk. That’s why we’re talking with them in the first place.

“The artist is not a different kind of person,
but every person is a different kind of artist.”
~ Eric Gill

Today’s post is about a personal project and a community project started by one man twenty-six years ago that has moved beyond inspiring his neighbors to inspiring people all over the world.

Heidelberg Project Panorama

Heidelberg Project Panorama - Heidelberg Street in Detroit

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Roots to Fruits: An Unconventional Path to an Authentic Life

Tomatoes Ripening on the Vine

Tomatoes Ripening on the Vine

An old farmer stops in the midday sun to sink his teeth into a plump tomato, juice spilling down his whiskered chin, beneath a perfect broken smile.

Whenever I read a poem from Cathy’s work-in-progress collection, The Old Country, an homage to her father and to her grandparents, but also to more than them, I am reminded of that old farmer image which I often had as a boy, shaped no doubt by stories my own father shared about his youth.

We all have some old country in our blood. But “old country” doesn’t just mean some distant far off place, as much as it means a way of life that may, to varying degrees, be forgotten by some of us, but that is as much a part of who we are as our sinews and our bones.

My dad used to tell me stories about how he grew up in a neighborhood of mostly Polish and Italian immigrant families and how people from the old country kept these thriving gardens thick with tomatoes and peppers and onions.

Even though I spent every minute of my youth as averse to vegetables as you can be, I remember those stories because the gardens and the men and women who tended them were so vivid the way he told it.

I remember hearing about an old man who would eat garlic like an apple and about how my dad may have, on occasion, sampled something succulent from a garden or two, may have even been chased off for doing so.

I remember Mrs. Augostini, a woman I met once when I was a boy, a woman I can still envision, her accent thick, her hands textured with age and hard work so they looked to me as if she’d just plucked them from the garden too. I remember the way my dad’s tone would always have this implicit reverence to it whenever he mentioned the incredible food Mrs. Augostini would make with those homegrown vegetables as she put a bit of the old country into the meals she made.

Old Hands Plucked From The Garden

Old Hands Plucked From The Garden

And I remember, to this day, the pasta e fagioli I tasted for myself that one time, the way the mixture of freshness enthralled the tongue with flavor unlike anything I’d ever known.

Please don’t make the mistake of thinking that meant I suddenly liked vegetables. Not a chance. It still took me a couple more decades before I finally came around. But those vegetables, grown in that small patch of backyard sun, with the dirt washed from their skin in that old kitchen sink, prepared the way Mrs. Augostini prepared them, I can say without hesitation I would have immersed myself in them daily.

I remember my own grandmothers, two bold, big-hearted, earthy women from two very different cultures, with very different sensibilities and tastes and passions except when it came to their families and when it came to sharing their old country roots through their food.

It seems to me that food connects us intimately to other people, to the past, and to our heritage, but also to the earth and to a part of our own nature we may not be connected to any other way.

I mention this because the focus of today’s blog post is on two young men who not only get those old country connections, but who have created a business built upon a philosophy that reflects an appreciation for much more than that, for a return of sorts not just to old country roots but to principles from long before the old country ever was.

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Do What’s in Your Heart

I like to ask people to describe their internal landscape and to do so in terms of a place, a type of geography, or a geographical feature they most identify with.

When I asked my 12-year-old daughter to do this, she replied, “I’m a warm beach by the ocean. It’s salty. There are waves. And beautiful colors.” Then she looked at me and asked, “What place are you?”

Grand Canyon

I didn’t hesitate, “The Grand Canyon!”

She rolled her eyes, “Why the Grand Canyon? What’s your obsession with the Grand Canyon? Why not a warm beach by the ocean. Everyone loves beaches and the ocean!”

I can’t explain why here on the inside of me it feels like the Grand Canyon– sun baked colors, dramatic and intricate shapes cut through layer upon layer of rock — but it is an honest image.

As part of my interview with her, I asked Tori Murden McClure this same question.

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