Ways of Understanding

Wyoming - Beautiful and Vast

Wyoming – Beautiful and Vast

It’s fascinating to me how I can have all the essential ingredients for a post like today’s (those primary ingredients, in this case, being interview responses from poet and author Lesléa Newman) and still spend days trying to figure out just how to get started. Not for a lack of ideas, but from an overabundance.

I’ve spent the past few days running through a list of relevant themes (from “understanding” to “empathy” to “compassion” to “belonging”) and each seems to warrant consideration. Each seems to demand it’s own place, not just in today’s post, but in several.

Late last night, after I’d been in bed reading for awhile, I finally decided to shape today’s blog around empathy and compassion. Of course, this morning, that changed a bit, after I spent an hour working on my YA novel, Mr. Bones. I’d finally gotten to a new chapter, to a new scene – one in which the protagonist (Gabe) and his best friend (Swatch) and their sworn enemy (Tyler) discuss the classic novel Of Mice and Men while working on a group project for school.

Unbeknownst to me, Swatch had come to a conclusion on her own about Steinbeck’s characters. She stated that nearly all the characters in the book wanted a piece of land to call their own. That theme is presented in the very first chapter – as George and Lennie discuss their shared dream (the “American Dream,” as it’s been called), but in many ways Swatch asserts it’s really just a human dream – when George says that “Someday . . . we’re gonna have a little house and a couple acres an’ a cow and some pigs and–” Lennie interrupts, “An’ live off the fatta the lan’ . . . An’ have rabbits.” I’ve always been especially drawn to that scene because it so deftly conveys Lennie’s childlike aspirations in the context of the much larger dream, one that, as Swatch pointed out to me and Gabe and Tyler this morning, is shared by most of the characters in the novel.

But, Swatch also suggested that the dream of being independent, of having something to call their own, might have also been written by Steinbeck to represent an even more basic human need (not shelter, but the need to belong to something larger than yourself).

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Do What’s in Your Heart

I like to ask people to describe their internal landscape and to do so in terms of a place, a type of geography, or a geographical feature they most identify with.

When I asked my 12-year-old daughter to do this, she replied, “I’m a warm beach by the ocean. It’s salty. There are waves. And beautiful colors.” Then she looked at me and asked, “What place are you?”

Grand Canyon

I didn’t hesitate, “The Grand Canyon!”

She rolled her eyes, “Why the Grand Canyon? What’s your obsession with the Grand Canyon? Why not a warm beach by the ocean. Everyone loves beaches and the ocean!”

I can’t explain why here on the inside of me it feels like the Grand Canyon– sun baked colors, dramatic and intricate shapes cut through layer upon layer of rock — but it is an honest image.

As part of my interview with her, I asked Tori Murden McClure this same question.

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